The Palms Seattle meets bi-monthly at a North Seattle restaurant for dinner and conversation. This is a casual, no-pressure event, and new members are very much welcome.

The dinners are held on the second Saturday of the odd-numbered months. In 2023, those dates are January 14, March 11, May 13(Cancelled), July 8(Cancelled), September 9 and November 11.

Email invitations with the location information are sent approximately one week in advance to members.

To get an invitation to the dinner, you must be a member of the Palms. See the New Members page on information about membership in the Palms Seattle.

if you are a current member of the Palms and have not received your invitation by the week of the dinner, please contact paddlebot via the email address that you used to register for membership you will also need to include the handle that you use on the forums.

Field Trips

Some of our group members occasionally go out on field trips to places such as museums. These are also casual no-pressure events that allow members to interact with each other in a vanilla environment.

Such events will be announced in the forum and interested members should PM the admin or contact paddlebot to register interest.

To be eligible to attend, you should have attended a regular dinner meeting. Ladies who are too nervous to come to a dinner can contact paddlebot for further information.


There are currently no public parties planned. To be eligible to receive an invitation to a public party, you must have attended a regular dinner meeting.