New Members

How do I become a member?

Please take a look around our site to ensure that we are the group of people you are looking for.

  • We are almost strictly a male top / female bottom group.
  • We are not a BDSM group.

If you are interested in joining our group - please send an email to paddlebot from the email address to which you want us to send info about Palms events. Please include the name or "handle" you would like to go by, and the password you would like to use. If you don't send us a password, we will assign you one - something hard to remember.

Once you are registered, you will receive email notices for our dinner meetings. You must attend a dinner before you can attend other events. Ladies who are too nervous to come to a dinner can contact paddlebot for further information.

Once you registered as a member, you will be able to post in our forums. The forums contain various discussion boards including a general board about spanking, a place for people to share stories they have written, Party Reviews and Personal Ads.

I cannot stress this enough to new members, please read the web site in its entirety. We don't mind answering questions, but griselde has already put a lot of the information you need and want to know on the FAQ page.